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Article: 17 Micro Ceremonies For Your Wedding Day (And How To Do Them)

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17 Micro Ceremonies For Your Wedding Day (And How To Do Them)

Are you looking to personalize your wedding ceremony and add a micro-ceremony within it? This blog post has got you covered. We wanted to run through some different small traditions that you can include in your overall wedding ceremony. 

Ring Warming Ceremony

You may be wondering what a ring warming ceremony is. You wouldn't be alone in that, so let us break it down for you: A ring warming ceremony is a tradition that can be a part of your wedding ceremony where all (or most) of your guests will touch (or in other words, warm) the wedding rings using their hands as an act of blessing the wedding bands. The blessing symbolizes good luck, good vibes, and high hopes for the relationship you and your partner will share as a married couple. Ring warming ceremonies are a great way to include all of your guests in a tradition at your ceremony, especially for any brides having very intimate, small weddings.

bride with long sleeved wedding dress holding wedding bands in palms of her hands

The ring warming portion of the ceremony can be carried out at different times before or during your ceremony. Some couples will have it during the ceremony, usually when it's a smaller, more intimate wedding. If you're having a bigger wedding guest-list wise, the better option may be to have the rings near the entrance on a table, and your guests will be able to warm the wedding bands as they enter.

There are a handful of ways you can have a ring warming ceremony play out. You can have the wedding rings tied together with a piece of string to keep them as one. This represents you and your partner joining in marriage. The rings are passed around to all of the guests at your ceremony while they're seated. Another option would be to place both rings in a small bowl of some kind, and the guests would pass that around instead. It's essential to have someone there to explain the point of the ceremony to the guests and watch over the rings. The last thing anyone wants is misplaced or lost wedding rings. For this, you'll want to choose someone you can trust to be responsible for the rings to become your 'ring chaperone' for the ceremony because once all of the guests have warmed the rings, they'll still need to make it to the bride and groom's fingers.

Rose Ceremony

Including a rose ceremony at your wedding is the act of a bride and groom exchanging roses at their wedding. Giving someone a single red rose is considered symbolic of saying 'I love you.'

There have been several ways rose ceremonies can play out at a wedding. Some couples may choose to do their rose ceremony before exchanging vows and saying 'I do' while others may choose to do it after the vows have been exchanged and they're officially a married couple. It's just a matter of individual choice. The general idea of the rose ceremony itself is for the bride and groom to give each other one single red rose, usually a long-stemmed one, as a romantic gesture of love & their first gift to the other as a newly married couple. Traditionally, your officiant will explain the idea behind the giving of the roses. The officiant will then speak about the meaning behind it for the couple and their love for the other. Additionally, some couples with children may choose to involve their children and other family members in the ceremony. To do this, you would have a vase for the kids or parents/other guests to place their red roses in as a gesture of the new combined family unit created out of a marriage and their love & blessing for the married couple. Sometimes these family members will use a white or another colored rose while the couple sticks to the long-stemmed red rose. 

Another variation to the rose ceremony is when the newly married couple will designate a place in their home together to leave each other a rose on their anniversary (or in troubled times) in the future. While this isn't always the case with rose ceremonies, it's something you could potentially consider as many couples have done this to add that little bit of extra intimacy and sentimentality to their wedding ceremony.

red bridal rose for rose ceremony 

Wine Ceremony 

First and foremost, this type of wedding ceremony shouldn't be confused with a wine box ceremony, which we've covered in another blog. A wine ceremony is one of the simplest (and tastiest!) wedding ceremony ideas out there. This particular idea is pretty straightforward to carry out: the bride and groom will share a glass of wine, taking turns drinking out of the same glass to celebrate the life they're starting together. The officiant will speak a bit about why a wine ceremony was chosen and what it represents to the couple!

The wine ceremony has been thought of as representing the two things marriage and wine share: bitter and sweet moments. We'll all experience a wide range of emotions and events in life. Some will be the sweet & beautiful moments we live for, while others will be the harsher, bitter times in life that we'll overcome together with our partners. The wine ceremony is intended to showcase precisely that and is a beautiful way to showcase a more grounded and realistic expectation of what life will be like as a married couple moving forward into the future. 

A wine ceremony is something you can personalize in many ways if you want to. For example, while the common type of wine tends to be red, you can switch it up and use something different such as a gin, whiskey, or something else, even a non-alcoholic version if that suits you better. You can also switch up your wine glasses. I've personally seen a couple go for a more Viking-style mug because they felt it suited them better as a couple. Some couples even choose to include their parents in the wine ceremony too.

The wine ceremony is a tradition that starts as a general idea with so much space for you to personalize to suit you on your day. All you'll need for this ceremony is some special wine glasses, mugs, or vessels of some sort to drink out of that fit your theme or personal taste and a nice bottle of red wine (or other beverage) of your choosing. It's just that simple yet meaningful!

It's important to remember that you can customize almost anything about your wedding to suit your needs. From a custom-made wedding dress to a wedding ceremony customized to suit your needs! 

Water Unity or Water Blending Ceremony

A water unity ceremony is a great way to showcase the unity between a couple at their wedding uniquely.

To carry out a water unity ceremony, speak with your officiant first to organize a time during the overall ceremony to fit in best, generally towards the end for most brides and grooms. To start, your officiant will explain to your guests what you're about to do and the meaning behind it. To carry out the water unity ceremony itself, the bride and groom take a glass or vase each that will be filled with water and pour them into a central vase, usually decorated to fit your wedding theme. Much like the unity candle ceremony, it's taking two individual things and joining them together as one, the same way a couple is when they get married.

A water unity ceremony is also a great way to personalize your wedding with that unique touch for brides on a strict budget as the requirements to carry this out are very cost-effective.

What you'll need for a water unity ceremony:

  • One central vase. (this can be decorated to suit the color and theme of your wedding if you'd like)
  • Two individual glasses or vases, one each for you and your groom
  • Enough water for the individual vases. (be sure that when combined, it doesn't overfill the central vase and spill everywhere!) 

Some couples may opt to be creative with the water by adding food coloring to create specific colors or mixed colors. An excellent example of this would be maybe you'd choose your specific color to represent one thing. In contrast, your groom would choose another, mixing them to create a color combo expressing your love coming together as a mix. You could mix red for passion and yellow for wisdom or other colors and ideas representing different things to you or your partner. Some couples may also opt to use something different than water, such as wine.

Tying The Knot Ceremony

While tying the knot has become a standard reference to getting married, which originated from the tradition of handfasting ceremonies (which we've covered more in-depth here), there is also a different tradition involving 'tying the knot.' For this one, as with all ceremony ideas, you'll have your officiant cover what's about to happen. At this point, you'll have someone close to you, probably the best man, hand you and your groom two pieces of rope which you'll then tie into a Fisherman's knot. The reasoning behind the Fisherman's knot is that it represents a bond that 'grows stronger under pressure instead of breaking down how a Fisherman's knot becomes stronger when they bear weight on them or are pulled tightly.

The tying the knot ceremony generally happens after the vows have been exchanged at your wedding ceremony. This is another budget-friendly option as all you'll need is two pieces of rope. Suppose you want your Fisherman's knotted rope to match the theme of your wedding. In that case, you can choose a specific colored rope, ribbon, or twine that matches, or you can choose colors that match feelings or represent something meaningful to you and your partner.

One bonus to a 'tying the knot' ceremony is that it lets you keep a heartfelt and sentimental item to remind you of your wedding ceremony forever. Something you could keep in a safe place or even hang on the wall in your home. It will serve as a constant reminder of one of the happiest days of your and your partners' lives. 

One thing we always suggest for this kind of ceremony is to take some time out before your wedding day to practice tying a fisherman's knot with your partner so it'll run smoothly on your big day. There are many YouTube videos and guides on how to do this effectively.

Unity Candle Ceremony 

We've covered unity candle ceremonies in more depth in a previous blog, you can find that here, but this is a pretty common tradition at quite a few weddings, so we wanted to include it here too!

A unity candle ceremony is always a great choice, especially for more intimate weddings where you want to include something delicate with meaning. At your ceremony, this type of tradition is when the bride and groom take two individual candles, lighting them from small votive candles, and use them to light a more prominent and more central pillar candle. The reasoning behind this is to represent the two flames (the bride and groom) becoming one now that they're married. 

two candles with wedding rings on table at wedding

Unity candle ceremonies tend to be cheap cost-wise, so they work for brides on strict budgets for their wedding day. Here's what you'll need;

One large pillar candle (This represents the married couple)

Two smaller taper candles (These represent the bride and groom as individuals)

Two votive candles (votive candles are similar to tea-light candles; smaller candles that will be pre-lit for the bride and groom to light their taper candles from)

One lighter/box of matches (probably the most important thing many couples tend to forget!)

All of the above can be purchased from a wide range of websites, stores that sell wedding goods, and many Etsy stores!

Choosing a micro ceremony is a great way to add more depth and sentimentality to your wedding day.

Wine Box Ceremony

The wine box ceremony is another tradition we previously covered in more depth, but we wanted to add to this list of traditions. You can find our more in-depth breakdown here. A wine box ceremony is a tradition where the bride and groom create a time capsule for later on in life, or on a specific anniversary, to open together.

When it comes to what you'll place inside the box or time capsule, it's pretty simple: a nice bottle of wine to share down the track and a love letter to each other. The main idea is to sit down on the morning of your wedding and write each other a letter. You'll write about how you're feeling and why you love each other so much. The reasoning and purpose for this are to remind each other why you got married in the first place one day later in the future.

What you'll need:

  • One box to act as your time capsule. (this is usually a sturdy wooden box of some sort. There are many ways to seal it; wax, rope, ribbon, or even nailing it shut. The choice is up to the couple)
  • One bottle of wine or a similar beverage. (some couples may opt for champagne or whiskey instead, whichever suits your taste!)
  • Two love letters. (You and your partner will place the love letters you'll write to each other in this box with the bottle of wine)

One of the most beautiful and sentimental reasons to have a wine box ceremony is that it creates a keepsake for you to take away from your wedding and share someday in the future. Maybe at an anniversary, a trying time in life, or when you make a significant memory together in life. It lets you relive your wedding day some years down the track and remind each other of the reason you're in this partnership together.

Handfasting Ceremony

Handfasting ceremonies were made famous in movies like Braveheart and TV shows like Game of Thrones (Robb & Talisa Stark!) but go back in history much further than that. Handfasting ceremonies are where the phrase "tie the knot'’ originated, dating for more than 2000 years.

Handfasting ceremonies are a great way to personalize a tradition on your wedding day. To carry one out, you'll need several colors of ribbons that will be tied or braided into a more giant '‘rope'’ that will then be tied around the bride and grooms hands by their officiant at the wedding. The bride and groom will stand either side by side or face one another, both having a hand extended out and holding them together. The officiant will recite some words while they tie the braided rope around both of your hands to represent you being joined in marriage. There are usually specific speeches and words your officiant will say during the handfasting ceremony, so be sure to cover that with your officiant when you meet them or before the wedding day.

The officiant will use the rope to tie you and your groom together. This one comes down strictly to personal choice. You'll choose several colors of ribbons that will represent something to both you and your partner. For instance, the red ribbon represents strength, passion, and fertility, while the purple represents power. There is a whole range of colors, so you'll want to put some thought into the colors and what they mean to you or how they apply to your relationship and love.

We have a lot more information on this in our handfasting ceremony blog. If you're interested in learning the meaning behind each ribbon color, that will be braided into your knot.  

Pass the rope

This ceremony is kind of like a ring warming ceremony meets a tying the knot ceremony. For a pass the rope ceremony, several strands of rope are passed around the guests at the wedding ceremony to be blessed with well wishes. The rope is then passed back to the bride and groom, where the groom holds them together at one end while the bride braids them together, much like a simple braided hairstyle.

The braiding of the rope represents tying the knot and the idea that the couple is stronger intertwined with each other than they are separate. This is an excellent idea for a ceremony tradition that is cost-effective and efficient to carry out and allows you to have a keepsake to take home after the wedding!

To carry out a Pass The Rope ceremony, all you'll need is three strands of rope or twine. That's it! You can choose colors that suit your partner and your wedding theme or any colors in general. Just make sure, as always, you have your officiant explain to the guests what the purpose is and what will happen as the crowd will be involved by passing around the strands of rope.

It's essential to make your wedding day all about you and your partner. It's your special day, after all. So choosing a ceremony that suits you is a beautiful way to remember such an incredible time in your life.

Sky Lantern/Wishing Lantern Ceremonies

wedding party releasing sky lanterns

Sky lanterns at a wedding are more common in many Asian and South American countries as a symbol of prosperity and good luck. However, for the last 30 years, they've been found worldwide in many different countries by couples on their wedding day. 

When it comes to carrying this tradition out, there are generally two ways it can be done. The first is to launch a single lantern representing the life a bride and groom will share as a couple. Alternatively, some couples choose to include their guests in this, and everyone will set one off as a tribute to the newly married couple to signify good luck and blessings for the marriage. The size of your wedding guest list will be something to consider here, but the choice is yours. Traditionally, couples add a small written note to the sky lantern with hopes and blessings of good luck or prosperity for the future, so don't forget to consider this if you have a sky lantern ceremony where your guests will also be launching their lanterns. The great thing about sky lanterns at your wedding is that you can get many that are biodegradable and not flammable, which is great for peace of mind and safety!

Wedding sky lanterns are traditionally used between the ceremony and reception, or they can be released at night as your wedding reception is coming to its natural conclusion.

If a sky lantern ceremony is something you'd be interested in and you're searching for the lanterns themselves, there are many places online you can find them. Etsy could be a good start for a rough idea of costs or potential places to purchase the items. The lanterns often come in packs of 10/25/30/50 etc., so you can pick an amount that fits your guest numbers on your wedding day!

Time Capsule Ceremony

A time capsule ceremony is something where the name is quite literal: the goal is to create a time capsule that you and your partner will save to open years later on an anniversary. There's no specific date in mind, but usually at the five, ten, or twenty-year mark into your marriage. For a time capsule ceremony, you and your partner will want to each pick out some small trinkets or reminders and write each other a letter. There are a lot of things that you can potentially put in here, so scaling it down to a small list will be the tricky part. For some ideas, you could add:

  • Concert tickets of shows you've been to together
  • Love letters, notes, or cards that you've sent each other on special occasions, especially while dating.
  • Trinkets or gifts that you're okay parting with for the near future

For the time capsule itself, you'll want something to place the items in that you can seal up and keep somewhere accessible for later on when the time comes to open it up. There are quite a few options here, including a decorated wooden box of some sort. You can buy these from many craft stores or places like K-Mart and Target. Alternatively, you might want to use a steel box or a bag of some kind. It comes down to personal preference. If you're wondering where you should place it, that too comes with a few options, but the safest bet will be keeping it in your home somewhere or maybe at a parent's house to ensure it's kept secure, private, and not opened until the right time comes!

To carry out a time capsule ceremony, as always, your officiant will explain to your guests the purpose behind what you're doing while you and your partner will place the items in the box or bag of your choice and seal it up. This can be done at any point, before or after you exchange vows. The option is yours.


Stone Ceremony

A stone ceremony, also known as a pebble ceremony or a wishing rock ceremony, depending on who you ask, is a heartfelt way to include all of your guests at the wedding in a more profound way than just watching you get married. For this, you'll want a box of polished stones placed near the entrance to the wedding ceremony venue. Make sure you assign a person or two to hand out the stones to guests as they arrive and explain that they will be part of the ceremony. Your guests will use these stones to hold and make a wish for the future life that you and your partner will be embarking on while your wedding ceremony is carried out.

During the ceremony, generally at the start, you'll have your officiant explain the purpose of the stones each guest was given entering the venue. The officiant will instruct your guests to hold their stone and make a wish for you and your partner before asking the guests to sign their name and possibly write a word that signifies their wish before placing it back in the box(s) at the entrance on their way out. You'll now have something to remind you of each guest that attended your special day!

For a stone ceremony, you'll need some polished rocks/stones/pebbles. These can be purchased at trade stores like Bunnings. When it comes to how many you'll need, to play it safe, you'll want to know how many guests you'll have and add 10-15 extra stones in case. You'll also want to get a box, bowl, or crate of some sort to keep these in. You'll be able to purchase this at Bunnings (or whatever trade store you go to for the stones) as well as a few permanent marker pens like a Sharpie or similar.

Make sure you pre-arrange for someone to stand at the entrance to your wedding ceremony venue and hand the rocks out to your guests as they enter. It could be a good idea to avoid confusion by having the person handing the stones out to let people know it'll be part of the ceremony.

Celtic Oathing Stone Ceremony 

This specific ceremony is rooted in Celtic culture & heritage and started many years ago. The name for this ceremony relates to the idea of '‘setting an oath in stone'’ and is still added during some wedding ceremonies around the world today.

To carry this ceremony out, you'll need a Celtic Oathing stone; these can be bought online from many places, including Etsy, and may also be available somewhere near where you live, although you'll need to search a bit on Google in your specific area. During the ceremony, you'll have your wedding officiant explain the idea of the oathing stone to your guests, and it will then be passed around the audience for each person to hold the stone and bless it with well wishes and love before it's then given back to you and your partner. At this point, as a couple, you'll both exchange your vows while holding the stone to symbolize using the stone to make your oath (vows) to each other.

A Celtic Oathing Stone ceremony is another excellent way to include your audience while also creating a timeless reminder of your happy day that you can keep with you, adding an extra layer of togetherness and intimacy to your wedding ceremony. If you'd like, you can also make your oathing stone to personalize things even further for your special day.

Lasso Ceremony

A lasso ceremony, also known as '‘El Laz'’ is a traditional ritual carried out in Filipino, Mexican and Spanish cultures. This one is quite simple to carry out yet very elegant and beautiful. During the wedding ceremony, the officiant will explain to the guests that a Lasso ceremony is about to occur and that it symbolizes love and unity for infinity. The officiant will then take a floral garland and place it around the neck/shoulder area of the couple, who will be standing face to face. When draping, the officiant will twist it into an infinity symbol and then speak a few words to commemorate the couple's love, togetherness, and unity that they'll share for life moving forward. The beautiful thing about the Lasso ceremony is you can then take the floral garland home and hang it up for a while as a reminder of your special day! You'll only need one thing for this ceremony: a floral garland. This is quite easily obtainable from most florists, so all you'll need to do is contact some local florists and discuss your options with them!

Truce Bell Ceremony

A truce bell ceremony is a Celtic custom and an exciting idea for something you can do at your ceremony and then take home afterward and carry it on through life when you need it. A truce bell ceremony is when you'll ring a '‘Truce Bell'’ (truce in its literal meaning; '‘an agreement between enemies or opponents to stop fighting for a certain time'’) at your wedding to represent the idea of compromise and overcoming issues. During the ceremony, your officiant will explain to your guests the idea behind it. The officiant will then take you and your partner through a vow to use the truce bell in the future to overcome any arguments or disagreements, followed by both of you ringing the truce bell once each. The idea behind this is that after you've been married and gone on to your new life together, if there are any tense moments, arguments, disagreements, or fights of any kind, one of you can ring the truce bell to remind you both why you decided to get married in the first place. The sound of the truce bell will always be a reminder of your special day and the love you hold for each other. It's an exciting concept for a wedding, especially if you want something in your ceremony to ground you and remind you that while weddings are worth it, they're not always easy or pain-free!

wedding truce bell surrounded by wreath of flowers

There are many websites online (and some bridal stores depending on where you live!) where you can purchase a truce bell. As always, Etsy is an excellent place to start. You could also opt to purchase your plain bell from stores like K-mart or Target and decorate it yourself to match your theme. These are usually relatively inexpensive.

Garland Ceremony

A garland ceremony is known by a few other names, such as a lei ceremony in Hawaii or the case of Indian weddings, Jaimala or Varmala. A garland ceremony is one you might've seen before in movies or on TV but not realized the name behind it. A garland ceremony is when the bride and groom exchange floral garlands to represent, among other things, the love and respect you hold for the person (your partner in this case) that you're putting the garland on. It also represents the unity of a new family that you'll become with your partner once married.

To carry out a garland ceremony at your wedding, you'll have your officiant explain to the guests the meaning behind it and what's about to take place. After which, you and your partner will exchange floral garland wreaths that you'll place around each other's necks symbolizing love and respect for each other.

If you're planning on including a garland ceremony at your wedding and are unsure of how to get your hands on the garlands themselves, we'd suggest talking to a florist you like and asking them for help. Most florists will be able to help you with this quite quickly.

Tree Planting Ceremony

tree-planting ceremony is a small occasion you can add to your overall wedding ceremony. It's the ritual of you and your partner planting a tree together on your wedding day to symbolize the new life you'll be growing together moving forward as one.

You'll need two containers of soil; a watering can, a small table, and a potted tree to carry out a tree-planting ceremony. 

During your ceremony, the officiant will explain the symbology of a tree-planting ritual to your guests. You'll then have the potted tree on a table near (or on) your altar. You and your partner will then take turns adding soil and watering the tree, which will symbolize the life you'll grow together moving forward in life after your wedding day.

This ceremony is a great way to have something intimate that lasts long past your wedding day!

Have you got any micro ceremonies in mind for your wedding day? If so, we'd love to hear which one you've chosen and why!

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Your blog is a treasure trove of wedding ceremony traditions! Each element is introduced with magnificence and insight, providing terrific information for couples embarking on their journey.


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